A successful glow up requires a shift in mindset. It’s the pivotal point when one realizes their real worth. Suddenly, all of the bullshit you’ve put up with, is no longer something you are willing to accept. For months, I would write down my intentions to the Universe as I am open to receiving love, happiness, and opportunity. The Universe responded here and there on those requests. When I shifted the language of my intentions to, I only accept love, happiness and opportunity, the Universe began to respond quicker and more frequently. Things that I had asked for would pop up in the most unexpected ways - all because my language became more direct.
But let’s back-up for a second. A glow up is a moment in one’s life when a chapter needs to close, in order to make room for something bigger and better. Glow ups can occur after a break-up, leaving a job, graduating from college, or spontaneously just because. I highly recommend as step one that you pull the trigger on that badass haircut you always wanted. Listen, hair grows back and every pharmacy in America sells Biotin. Don’t wanna take the plunge on a new do? Get a blow out. The glow up is an extra acceptable time to make yourself feel pretty.
While staying on fleek is absolutely part of a glow up, its essence remains in the mindset. Sure, it can seem scary to move on from something and dive into the unknown. However, that’s why it is so crucial that a new attitude be the focus of your glow up. At the core of it all, it's about believing that you deserve the best, recognizing that you are allowed to want certain things and giving yourself permission to go ahead and get it. If you accept your worth and deny fuck shit, then you are only allow the good and positive in your energy space.